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Sunday, September 8, 2013

Capes 4 Heroes

I'm trying to catch up on my posts, in case you haven't noticed ;).  I got a bit behind!!!


I heard of a fantastic program called Capes 4 Heroes.  They give kiddos who have "superhuman strength and courage" free super hero capes.  It was perfect timing because the girls were asking for pink and purple capes to play with.  They were SO SO SO excited to get these in the mail!  This is such a fantastic program!  Here are my girls rocking there new capes...





 

Peanutbutter Playdough

Homeschooling is going well and the kiddos are enjoying it.  Conner is working on first grade and Ramya on Kindergarten.  I throw Madi in the mix as well when she's not at preschool or in respite and/or therapy.  We are going on a month of homeschooling and we are finally in a good groove.  The first few days were hard as Conner got used to more work and Ramya got used to having set activities and following directions.  The first few days she was in and out of time-ins, it was no fun at all.  Thankfully she is not only participating and listening (mostly ;)) for now, she is also enjoying schooling.  Whew!  I thought I'd share one of the kiddos favorite activities... peanut butter play dough!  Of course, we are a peanut-free house, so we actually make sunflower nut play dough, but you get the idea.  We also use the dairy-free recipe, as we can't do powdered milk over here.  The recipe we use is...

- 1 cup peanut butter
- 1/2 cup honey
- 2 cups powdered sugar


You just measure it out and mix it all together and... bam.... you have a cooking/math lesson, some work on fine motor skills, something fun to play with, and happy kids, all in one!  This was Ramya's first time making the play dough and she loved it! 

We store ours in the fridge and then I put it in a baking pan (metal) for the kids to play with.  I give them rollers and cookie cutters and all kinds of fun things to use with it.  They also love to eat it, though it's not low in sugar, so I do limit how much they eat per sitting.  I tell myself that because we use local, raw honey, it's not *quite* so bad ;).









 

Her First Day of Preschool

This year is Madi's last year of preschool.  She goes to a little private preschool down the street and loves it.  They are amazing with her!  Even though they don't "have" to, they go out of their way to make sure that everything is accessible and that Madi is included to the fullest extent possible.  They also encourage her to try new things and push her to try her best. They have worked with her therapists to see how they can help her at school and have also gotten therapist input on a lot of activities/projects.   I had contemplated not sending Madi this year, as it would be easier on me to just start both girls in Kindergarten for homeschooling this year, but I decided that Madi should go, since you are only little once.  I'm glad that I did because she is just loving it!  Tomorrow I will go in and talk to her class about spina bifida.  It went really well last year, so I'm hoping it goes over well again this year.  Oh, and did I mention there are only 8 kids in her class, with 1 teacher and 2 aides?  Class sizes don't get any better than that!!

 

Conner's Baptism

Today Conner got baptized at our Church, Imago Dei Community Church.  He had been expressing an interest in getting baptized and had been asking questions about baptism on and off for about a year now.  When he heard our Church was having baptisms again, he was very excited!  David and I are very proud of him and love to see his love for Jesus grow!  Our Church is still fairly new and is out of a highschool that we rent on Sundays, so they brought in a "pool" for the occasion :).  It was pouring down rain and we almost thought we would have to cancel, but thankfully the rain paused just in time (thanks Pastor Ryan for the prayers for it to stop!).  A big "thanks" to our family who came out and braved the rain to celebrate with us!








 

It's Always Hard to Say Good-bye

About 2 1/2 years ago, we got our very sweet dog from a family moving over-seas.  We had been wanting a dog and Titan fit right in!  He was such a smart dog, and did great with the kids.  He was gentle around them, but had lots of spunk and could play fetch for hours.  In March, we noticed he was drinking a TON of water and having lots of accidents/having to urinate a lot.  The vet ran some tests and the only thing that came back was high calcium levels, indicating cancer or a tumor were most likely.  They couldn't feel anything but believed something may be going on.  We were basically told that treatment options likely weren't great and would be expensive, so we decided to love on him for as long as we could.  Lately he had been seeming in a lot of pain.  He walked a little funny, started getting vocal with the kiddos when they got too close, was losing weight, was falling down a lot, and wasn't himself.  When we took him in for pain medication to help him, they found a soccer ball sized tumor in his abdomen.  Because of the size and location, they felt surgery wasn't a great option for him.  We tried steroids and pain medication, but it just wasn't enough to help him.  We decided it was time to let him go.  We fed him steak, gave him lots of love, and got him ice cream cones from McDonalds.  I let each kid feed him a mini cone, and they thought it was wonderful (P.S.  We were stopped in a parking lot, which was why Conner was out of his booster ;)).



Conner was very set on coming with us, and though I was hesitant to let him at first,  I decided to let it be his choice.  Conner is very mature emotionally and I know that, because of his personality, if he had his heart set on going, it would really, really bother him if he couldn't.   I also felt like I'd rather him see how peacefully it all went than wonder and be scared of death.  The girls stayed with my mom and Conner chose to stay with us.  Though we all cried and were sad to say goodbye, Conner said that he is glad he came with us and got to tell him good-bye one last time.  We stayed with Titan the whole time, and made sure he knew he was loved.

It's always hard to say good-bye to a pet that you love.  He was part of our family, and will be greatly missed!  We love you Titan!

 

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Madi's New HKFOs

Today Madi got her new HKFOs from Ron at Hanger.  She LOVES Ron and was so very excited to get her new "up-ups".  She had picked light pink with ladybug decals and was thrilled when she saw them.  Ron put them on her and she kept smiling and saying, "this is amazing!!".  Once we got home, she showed off her new HKFOs to Grams, David's mom, as well as our neighborhood group.  She asked to get up in them and show them how she walked.  She proceded to walk around for quite a while.  She was glowing, and we were both very proud.  It was so sweet!  At Hanger they had put a picture up on the wall of her and Ron together when she was a little smaller.  They showed her it today when we were in and she was excited to be a star.  It was a great day for her!


 

Oh Me, Oh My We Saw GI

Yesterday was our appointment at PCH's Scottsdale office to see GI.  We saw Dr. Silber because we had heard great things about him from a friend.  Our main goal was to talk about Ramya's bowels because we are still trying to see if she will need a cecostomy in the future, or if she can adequately manage them on her own.  The general surgeon, Dr. Bae, believes that she will likely need the cecostomy, and I agree. I can clean her out just fine, but she has many accidents.  Though she doesn't care right now about them, I know eventually she will.  The cecostomy would help keep her from having so many.  Before we decide on that, though, we want to exhaust our non-surgical possibilities. 

Dr. Silber asked us a lot of questions to find out as much as he cold about her history, what we've seen during her 6 months (AH... 6 months!!!) home with us, where she is at developmentally, etc...  He spent quite a bit of time with us.  I went in prepared to argue why I don't want to give Ramya miralax.  I know that miralax is the go-to for bowel issues, however, I find probiotics, George's Aloe Vera Juice, and Senna when needed, works very well.  I don't like that long-term use of miralax in children has not been adequately studied, and I do not like putting PEG in my kiddos bodies, even though it is not supposed to cross the blood/brain barrier.  Anyhow, I was told by Dr. Bae that she would likely need to try miralax, and most of what I read is that kiddos with SB take a daily dose of miralax, so I was anticipating a struggle.  Thankfully Dr. Silber was totally on board with our approach and saw no need to try and change it.  The only thing he would like to do differently, though, is to give Ramya Ducolax suppositories (well, half of a suppository) once a day to see if we can clean her out a bit more in one setting, and therefore keep her from having so many accidents. 

We talked about her weight gain, as Dr. Bae had put it in the notes he sent over, and he asked me if I wanted to put Ramya on an appetite stimulant.  I told him that Ramya had grown about 3 inches taller in the past 6 months and has also gained 2 pounds recently.  I am thinking she's just one of those kiddos that grows up, and then out, and then up, and then out.  First came the height, and now a bit of weight gain.  I told him I'd rather wait and just see how she does, and he agreed that we could do that. 

Dr. Silber noticed that Ramya's iron levels are pretty low so he'd like Ramya to take iron supplements for a few months.  He thinks because she was so deficient for so long, her body is still struggling to catch up, but that after a few months, it should be fine and stay fine.  He doesn't see it being an ongoing problem and doesn't think that she will need supplementation past a few months.

It's hard to add another doctor to our list of frequents, as Ramya now sees the pediatrician, orthopedic surgeon, neurosurgeon, endocrynology, and GI frequently, and Madi now sees the orthopedic surgeon, pediatrician, urologist, neurosurgeon, and neurologist, but I can't complain because my girls get AMAZING care and have doctors that truly care about them.  I am so very thankful for that! I can't wait until the day when they can see the doctors at the same time, and at the same place.  That will be a life-saver.  Right now Madi is on our insurance and also long-term care and can only see her doctors out of CRS.  Ramya is on our insurance, but we can't apply for long-term care for her, as we are still waiting on everything to be 'official' in Arizona so that she can be give our last name.  Until then, she sees the exact same doctors (for the ones that they both see), but at PCH.  So, for now, we can't coordinate.  The good news, though, is I can sneak in questions to the doctors about the kiddos they aren't seeing, and save myself a call in to the office. 

In other news, Madi got her new HKFOs today.  She was sooooo very excited.  I'll post about that soon, and show some pictures :).